How do you tell if maybe we aren't supposed to be together? Even if we did stay together, some of the 'stuff' is hers and she doesn't seem willing to even consider/work on that. Granted that would be in the future, if there was a future, but i do think about it.
I actually posted about this today as well. I think that the good thing is that we don't need to decide today whether or not we are meant to be with our WAS. Regardless of whether we like it or not, we are on this journey. We just need to focus on ourselves and become the best person we can and let go of the outcome. The awesome thing about your post is that you now realize that you have a choice in this. You get to decide whether or not you want your W in your life.
