Digdeeper and 3bm, thank you for your words....fortunately it was just unplanned sleigh ride on the highway wink and everyone was safe.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope