I am so much better when I don't hear from her at all.
You know I am totally w/ you on that one. Problem is now that I've cut contact through phone, I dread opening the mail box lol
Your mention of taxes makes me wonder what my H was planning on doing for taxes. I have my W2s and planned to just file by myself.
I hope the rest of your week is peaceful K, in spite of everything going on.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
Thanks Mimi, I really appreciate you checking in. I met with my lawyer today and wow did that take a load of pressure off of me. W is not eligible for any type of spousal support so she can threaten all she wants. She can't push me out of the house, and it would be a very hard case for her to make even if we went to trial. My lawyer says it's really apparent that W's attorney does not typically do divorce cases because the divorce decree W and her lawyer sent over is atrocious. My lawyer is on board with delaying things, she is getting married and going on her honeymoon, so she says we will try and wait to respond until March.
In the meantime, my L is formally requesting that W immediately return my ammunition, my $3000 painting and another painting that are my property still at her parent's house.
I hope things are going well with you too, I don't dread opening the mailbox. I'm sorry you feel that way now. I hope you have a great week too!
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
Hey K, hope you are well and ready to enjoy this weekend!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
Hey Mimi, I'm working today until 4:30, going to the 5 o'clock church service I normally go to. My allergies are killing me, my sinuses are all messed up.
I may be going bowling this evening, we'll see. I am scheduled to go on a 12-mile hike tomorrow but the weather looks questionable. A new woman I met who went through a divorce and I have been talking, I think she would really benefit from this site. She and her ex have a baby together, so I think I am viewing her more as a friend, which she also said she was looking for. I don't really have Superbowl watching plans formulated yet, we'll see what I can come up with on that.
The pastor that married us informed me he sent W a hand-written letter and had gotten her address from her grandfather. He asked her to reconsider and told me he hopes that he at least places some doubt in her mind about her decision.
What are you GAL activities this weekend?
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
This was the first weekend in a month that I've had both friday and saturday off, so I sat around and did nothing....nothing at all!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
Hey K! I tried to find the series on your churches website, I think it's either not up yet or I wasn't clicking the correct links Hope all is well w/ you!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
