2nd time around. H wants D. I don't

[makingmagic]

ok.. well, my h has been waaaaaay more responsive this past week. On Friday night we were working late, I offered for him to come to my place with his pizza to continue to chat and hang out, he thanked me but declined saying it was an emotional day (as we had had 2 BIG talks). He said he would talk later (I assumed he didn't mean that same night)....BUT, about an hour and a half later, he texted to say the rest of the evening went well... I texted back "thats great, chat later...im heading out".... I think he got jealous as the next day... he was calling/texing (I didn't respond right away), he was assuming I would be working with him... I said I couldn't "wasn't feeling well"(because of our talks)... Normally, he would be p!ssed that he was working and I wasn't... this time he backed off and said its ok, I didn't need to go in.(180 for him) Much later, a client was coming so I put myself together and went to work... His first question was "Hungover?"... I said Noooo, why?... This is new for him to enquire about my where a bouts.

During one of our earlier talks that night, he admitted that the time he took our daughter for movie night a couple weeks ago and dropped her off at my parents (he wondered WHY at my parents place... was it because I was entertaining my date at my house?... LOL.

So, I have reassured him that I am NOT dating... but, put the question back in his head that maybe it was time that I did, considering that he is dating. This way he knows I haven't DONE anything... but still might.

JOB?.... if you are still here... curious to your thought.

Sorry for highjacking your thread HB5, I was just trying to explain that I "think" my h is sharing his jealousy & curiosity.... and I LIKE IT!