Did your H tell you things about you? (Things that he determined were negative, of course.) Mine did all the time, and if I disagreed with his perception, he would argue with me and try to prove that he was right.
M - Yes! My H did/does this all the time. It drives me crazy. During my last conversation with H before my trip, he made several comments about who I am as a person and none of them are true. H says that he does not know if he wants to be married to a person like that. I want to shake him and say that I am not that person. H says that he wants to be married to a person that wants to travel the world. He thinks that because I mentioned once that I did not care to go to a few select places (i think I mentioned india) that I don't want to travel. He forgets all of the other conversations that we have had about the millions of places we would love to go. It is beyond frustrating.
