Gogo,

Stay in the newcomers section, this is actually for spouses that have done the walking away. It doesn't get much action if at all.

Newcomers gets most of the action, so you'll get some much needed advice there.

All you can do for now is give her time and space, as much as she needs. Be the man only a fool would leave, can you adjust your workload at all, and make the family more of a priority? She needs to SEE actions from you, not things that you TELL her. Its time to make some changes, its going to take a long time of you proving yourself with those changes over and over again. If you can do that, you have a CHANCE to save your marriage.

Hope to see you in newcomers, will post more there when I see it. Have your read sandi's 37 rules (guidelines)?

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