Originally Posted By: tough spot
Every night when my wife goes to bed I feel a sense of loss. All based on my own expectations of course. I don't bring up the R and the longer I don't, I kind of expect her to. And each night, after the kids go to bed, which would be the opportune time to talk, she does not...........
Tough, your not alone, I feel the same way too.

Originally Posted By: tough spot
Possibly I could take it as a good sign that she is not discussing one of us moving out/custody/dividing finances/filing for D/retaining a lawyer.
Your WAW and mine BD'ed about the same time, But, one month later my WAW retained a lawyer. Im going into my 3 month of D and no sign of stopping. I would count yourself lucky, very lucky.

YES keep working on yourself and GAL, just as I am trying to do.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14