Every night when my wife goes to bed I feel a sense of loss. All based on my own expectations of course. I don't bring up the R and the longer I don't, I kind of expect her to. And each night, after the kids go to bed, which would be the opportune time to talk, she does not...........

Possibly I could take it as a good sign that she is not discussing one of us moving out/custody/dividing finances/filing for D/retaining a lawyer.

Arrrgggghhhh. I will just keep working on me i suppose.


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6