Hmmm... I dont think I was trying to make him jealous, but to be honest about where he is at, and maybe I should be too. But, I can see how it might look like it was said to make him jealous.

AS for the boundary... i was following the DB technique. Why is the rule different for me than others on this board? I see plenty of people being told to set the boundary then stick to it.

Yes, I see how manipulation can push them away. Just not sure how my texts/words are doing that.

I see what you say tho... I need to just let him make the decision on his own.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)