We have tried the token economies. They work... for a while. Until the novelty wears off, which for an ADHD person is pretty quickly. Then it's off to try to find something else to capture her attention. It's pretty exhausting and at times seems like a total waste of our time.

I'll try this new approach and see how it goes. Probably will be 3-6 months before I can definitively say whether or not it is effective.

Me: 49
Wife: 39
D's: 9 & 11
Together: 15
Married: 13
Bomb 1 ILYBNILWU: 08/2012
Bomb 2 I feel dead inside towards you: 12/2013
EA? 06/2012-?