I found his comments quite interesting that he was expecting you to show remorse, no sadness, no understanding, no regret, etc. Sounds to me like that is projection because why would you display any of these emotions if you weren't at fault?
I would definitely go completely dark on him and leave him to his ow. Clearly he's running from mortality and is worried about becoming an old man and living out his days w/his body breaking down.
Oh my goodness...stealing his shampoo and conditioner from the bath? Now, that's too funny. Even if you took them, they can be replaced for a nominal fee. Next he'll texting you about bill payments for last month.
He's clearly not thinking clearly and most likely not w/the head on his shoulders.
I'm glad you removed your belongings and now you need to focus on you and your daughter. If he should text you again about something, I would sit on that text for a good while and if you feel it requires and answer, do so, but in a very nice manner.
I do hope that he'll get some professional help...but most of them don't for a very long time, if ever.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.