Hi melissag,

I found detaching difficult as well. The thing that is working for me is to stop dwelling on the situation as much as I was. I remind myself now everyday to slow down looking up advice online, talking to others seeking advice, to focus less on the situ and more on me and improving myself. Its hard, because like everyone else, I hope to find that magic solution. I keep reminding myself that this is a marathon and not a race.


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