separted six weeks still on the journey - II

[paul19510]

update: I had to call W today due to D16 wanting a new piercing and I wanted to discuss. We agreed to do it.

We also spoke about the upcoming trip for me and S12 and that D16 would like to stay at house but that I'd defer to W if she choses to stay her. I did try to set the boundary that W should tell me what the final outcome is prior to my leaving so that I understand what will be occurring while I am out of town.

I said to her that while this is her "house" as well, it is not her current "home" . she now has that with her parents. I asked that she respect this as my home and that I know what's occurring. She got mad. She feels entitled to be wherever it suits her.

She called D16 to reassert wanting to stay. they argued. W said why would you object to me staying there..? D16 said, "because you don't live here anymore and its not needed for you to stay and watch the pets. I'm here and can do it...."

W got offended. I texted W later that I reiterated to D16 that what W decides is what I will respect. She told me about the argument but changed the ending to say D16 told her that I do not want W here. She said "...its still half my house...."

all of this was over text. I texted W that I felt this was not a good conversation to have over text and that she should call me to go over peacefully. I also left her a voicemail with the same message. She did not answer the phone.

all of us here at the house are beginning to detach from this. We are moving forward as best we can given the current circumstances. W doesn't seem to like it.