Hi job, thanks very much for your reply - I have actually been reading your thread on why MLCers run away in their crisis - its been so informative so thank you...
So - in answer to your questions...
Are you aware of any health issues or changes in his life in the last 18 months? - I am not aware of any MAJOR health issues but he has been complaining of a bad back and shoulder and his knees have pretty much packed up because he played competition squash many years ago....changes in his life - he is a professional singer and although he had a lot of work last year he is trying to get more prestigious work which is harder. He has a beautiful voice but his age is STARTING to unfortunately go against in terms of auditions. etc. Its the first time, in October 203, where he has been offered a role, started the job and then the director sacked because he thought that he looked too old for the part. I noticed a significant turn downhill at that point. - He has been starting to become obsessed with raw juicing, taking optimum vitamin medication and is looking into age etc. (I would have loved to do ALL of this with him but it looks as if he wants all of it WITHOUT me around, rather with OW in tow..) - His father (nearly 89) tried to take an overdose late September 2013. WAP outwardly took it very calmly, almost coldly but I am sure that this could also be another contributing factor...
I have not lived in our home since December 20th 203 - this was the day that my D12 and I left for Australia. When we returned January 6th we stayed with a friend until we could find a place to live. I have spent the last four days removing all of our belongings from his house and that now is done. We have now no reason to contact each other. He asked me to return our keys - was extremely cold. He accused me of stealing his shampoo and conditioner from the bath???? I have given him everything he asked for re contact. I have gone EXTREMELY dark - almost NC except for emailing re arrangements for collection of our things. At first he was surprised that I didnt beg, plead, cry, become very emotional...he was expecting it. He emailed saying " Why havent you emailed - you have shown no remorse, no sadness, no understanding , no regret , nothing - how odd!" We are now no contact and I am maintaing that - especially because OW is now a confirmed entity.... I would appreciate some further feedback and am happy to fill in the doors more in a little while re our history/
