Just this past monday, I was truthful with my h, he has been insisting that I had someone, but as it turns out (he was the one dating... not successfully). He said that he thought I was done with him and that I moved on. I told him I have not been with anyone, nor did I put myself out there... but maybe if he was, I should. He cannot stand to think of me with another, apparently. I KNOW i don't like thinking of him with someone and told him as long as he is interested in OW, I will not be interested in him.
I agree.... A lot would have to change for me too. I deserve a better relationship from him. A better person who respects me.
Tel me what signs you see? What does it look/feel like? What actions are you seeing?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)