struggling is the truth... telling him I don't feel well, is truthful... I just didn't say "struggling"... didn't know if that was TMI. I don't want to push the squirrel away. Im not sure if it helps/hurts or what DB'ing would suggest, for him to know I can't handle what he is telling me.
I like what you said above....let him ask for the conversation. if he wants it, he'll ask for it. if he doesnt ask for it, he doesnt want it. when he wants it, he'll ask for it.
So, I texted h to see if he needed the tools that were in my vehicle. He asked if we were going to work today... I said "not feeling well" (true, emotionally)... He said "driving... can we talk" I said "about?"..... no reply. I then asked for business info that I needed to proceed... he provided... ..... what happened to "can we talk"? Where did that go? I wish I had said personal/business? or NO?.... leave it?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
