Back home, having a very hard time!!!

[indigo1]

Ok folks, believe I have some good news to report. Night before last I confronted W about the OM stuff again. I told her that no matter what she says, they are friends or what ever we cannot truly be working on our M if she is texting him all the time. Of course she got mad and defensive saying it means nothing. Once again I said if it wasn't shady he wouldn't be hiding it from his W and you would not be guarding your phone like its made of gold.

After the talk she was upset so I gave he a long hug and told her I know it's still hard for you to believe I have changed this much, but the change is real.

Fast forward to last night. She met her friend for a couple drinks earlier in the afternoon and brought us home dinner. W starts getting phone calls from a blocked number every ten minutes. I told her that it's someone *67 their number so it won't show up. Then I get a call and a blank voicemail from a number I don't know. Right away I can see W is nervous and acting weird.

I ask her what's wrong and she says she has to tell me something and I need to promise not to get mad. I agree. She tells me that after our talk and talking with her friend she realized that she was only 95% committed to making us work. That she texted the OM and told him that she is 100% committed to her M and is not going to text him anymore.

This is very good news I believe and has lifted a huge weight from me. It does concern me that OM might start to stalk her or something. Kinda weird that she breaks it off and now a blocked number keeps calling her phone. I hope this was just a coincidence, but I feel it's not.