Dingo, I believe that each of us has a unique situation. Nothing is "cookie cutter". Begging or pleading wont help you or W. But you want to reach out to test things. I could be wrong here....its your W and your M. What do you want? Personally, I think if you reach out and have the understanding when you do, that this could be a problem, but when you reach out you a confident and strong and you keep it simple, then you'll. Probably be fine. You don't need our permission or agreement. There or no mistakes only learning opportunities.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
