Mimi, to clarify they can't. He was more so asking when he can get someone else to serve me. Thank you for the encouragement Mimi!
Wow, I don't know what has happened, but I have certainly weakened. The whole divorce filing thing has made things tangible. Before, I just didn't really care too much about the separation. Now, that we might end I think I'm panicking. What if it really is over? I have all these memories of our first dates flashing through my mind. Will I ever have that with someone again? I think depression is onsetting. Please tell me that there is either light at the end of this tunnel, that there were times your divorce has been stopped.
What I really don't understand is why my H blames me for the entire downfall of our marriage. I think that's what really hurts. I take equal blame, but certainly not full blame. I just don't understand...I guess I just need a lot of support right now.
