M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
I'm glad you and your son had a great time. So, what's on the agenda for the weekend?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
We are having a Super Bowl Party and my H is coming. We'll see how it goes. H asked if my BF was coming. Lol. He seriously thinks I have one. And I'll continue to let him. I said no by the way. I asked if he was bringing a date he said maybe :p
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Enjoy your party and try not to allow your h's behavior to ruin it for you, your son and your guests.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Job, Thanks and enjoy your weekend as well. Actually he has been very nice and easy to get along with. H is joking about the OW/OM knowing neither of us would bring them to the house if we had one. lol. However, we may be in for a rough patch. And this is what I believe caused our separation now. H was notified that his job is off freeze and he was proceeding. H was just notified it was on hold again and he is upset again. We'll see?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Does the spouse ask if you went out with ow/om because they are nosy, jealous or just curious? My H thinks I have a BF and asks me everyday if I saw him or if I'm going to. He always brings him up. H is the one who left me. Had ow who was his soul mate etc. But was out of town EA but no longer. Just wondering what he's thinking??? Not that I will ever know or if possible.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
These guys are CRAZY... my H assumed that I had a bf too... couldn't be further from the truth!! What do they care since they are the ones who left us? What does it matter?
GRRRRRR
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Exactly! I let him think there is....bad me When we went through this 7 years ago he did the same thing and wanted to get back together shortly after. I am starting to see the same signs. Not really wanting to get back together but similar actions. I don't even know if I would do it again this time?? A lot would have to change. Plus H is very sure it's over!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
Just this past monday, I was truthful with my h, he has been insisting that I had someone, but as it turns out (he was the one dating... not successfully). He said that he thought I was done with him and that I moved on. I told him I have not been with anyone, nor did I put myself out there... but maybe if he was, I should. He cannot stand to think of me with another, apparently. I KNOW i don't like thinking of him with someone and told him as long as he is interested in OW, I will not be interested in him.
I agree.... A lot would have to change for me too. I deserve a better relationship from him. A better person who respects me.
Tel me what signs you see? What does it look/feel like? What actions are you seeing?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
