"I anticipate S's transition back to me after appt might be rough...he prefers dad at this age. Anything you can do to keep it positive and matter-of-fact I would appreciate "
Hey Crimson,
I am wondering if you might be projecting these feelings onto your son, since you are already anticipating it to be difficult. Kids are intuitive. They pick up on these things.
I am curious to know how you carry yourself during these interactions and exchanges. I realize these situations suk, however it is reality at the moment.
By what I can gather, you fight the "why do things have to be this way, when they can be better?". It is what you hope for versus the reality, if that makes sense.
You are part of the equation in these exchanges and I am unsure if you are making the situation better or more difficult for your S.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
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