Hi mamab
all good advice.. from the others plus remember
the only one who controls you is you..
The strange thing is that all the WAS say the same things, act almost the same way, make the LBS feel the same way and you are not going crazy and it is horrible and you may think it won't get better but you do get stronger..

also takes 2 to spoil a M. I spent a couple of months blaming me and apologising..then when I finally said Hey this was not just me, I am not so bad.. I felt stronger and when I actually said the same to him he was stunned..

The 37 points are so so so true they make you apppear and feel positive and in control...they are counterintuitive but they work...
There are good people here they offer excellent advice that leaves your self concept and image in goood shape..
I think we all want that at the end of the day..


M 10 T 14

BD 10/13
I really don't get it..