Hi mama B. Welcome. I am sorry to find you here. Like others have said, try to slow it down. your situation is very young. You don't need to do anything right away. Just take care of your kids. Try not to bring up the situation to your H if you can. read Sandi's rules in this forum. they help ALOT.

go out and find a way to get active. Go to the gym or just walk it off. It will help a lot.

keep posting and reading. you'll be surprised what you learn smile


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14