Yes... I understand that T2... but when we get into these convo's he is always reaching to hear this stuff... like he needs reassurances. Bringing up how he thought I was going to leave him first, bringing up my infedelity & how that hurts him, bringing up the fact that he "thought" I had a bf and has made decisions based on that (OW).

Yep... open mind... no agenda.

The way I approach the convo... does that sound like NO PRESSURE?, because I don't want to have the talk, if he isn't ready. IM NOT PUSHING ANYMORE!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)