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on Monday, you suggested we have a face to face honest talk... do you still want to do that?


That's all you need to say to ask.

Let him lead, don't worry about what YOU need to ask. Just listen to him. If you ask questions, use the above types in that tips post.

And I suggest that you keep yourself from drilling down into clarifying and slicing 20 shades of detail and meaning. 1 or 2 will do, any more and he is going to feel (rightly so) interrogated, and that frustrates guys in general to no end, much less a guy maybe in MLC . Because he is not going to know down to that level of detail.

AND..."I don't know" is a valid answer! It means just that, he doesn't know!! Nothing else. Nothing to read into, nothing to spin up about.


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm