I have no doubt he's still seeing OW. I told him to get on with the divorce.
From what I can tell he ignored me. I haven't heard from him since. I haven't initiated any contact in 5 days.
I'm done. I do have worth and value and I am not going to sit here on a shelf while he carries out his affair on the off chance that he decides to come back.
I am not his back up plan. I will not stay married to a man I have to share, a man that has forgotten how to tell the truth. I don't believe anything that comes out of his mouth anymore.
Well the above is actually a huge step forward. Ironically the LBS has to get to this point of being "done" before the WAS might look back. But the important thing about getting to this point is you are coming to the realization that you have a life to live whether your H is part of it or not, and you're going to live it regardless. My only suggestion is to be careful that you don't let anger take over, use this as incentive to do great things with your life
