If you want your D to grow up a better person, you better stand firm.
I know it's a struggle. I too have that problem with XW.
Do what our hearts tells us. Can't be too wrong if it is.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet