Hi 3, I posted to you yesterday but I don't see it! I must have messed something up when I posted. I won't bother retyping it all since everyone else said essentially the same thing - no 2x4s for ML with your H, and as long as you are OK with it, who knows, maybe it will end up being a good thing.
I am with Blues . . . fear is what keeps us stuck. I also do think, though, that it takes time to overcome the fear - I don't think that you can just blow through it all at once. It's a process, like everything else. You are doing a great job of moving forward and slaying one fear after the other. I'm a bit behind you, so I always look to see where you are and it inspires me to see you doing so well. I think that telling others about the S is a sign of acceptance, or perhaps just helps with acceptance - not sure which or whether it matters.
I imagine that people at work will get bored of talking about you, especially when they realize there are no juicy details to gossip about. And then you will see who at work cares about you . . . I feel like sometimes support comes from places you wouldn't have expected, so who knows?
Have you seen H since he left after ML? How is he acting?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
