Wow it all sounds so familiar to me from 18 months ago. Careful pal, it can get nasty and ugly real quick if you push her buttons. However, you did the right thing by not being her secretary for her stuff. I made that mistake and seemed that she only walked more and more on me with more anger. I was so stupid to do all those favours thinking it would help. Now, it also has not been that long for her to see permanent changes either, so she will doubt the changes as being genuine or a ploy. I had the exact same comments from mine but I let it get me down and made her look right. Do the changes for you pal, not her. If it works for the relationship then great, but do it for you. I finally got around to that realization and picked it up again. My M is over, but I am not. Roller coaster ride but you will be better off for you, no matter how the M turns out. Btw ..... What's 'dipping' ?
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
