Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

[FloydMan]

Yes, I suppose I had done the Beyond the Last Resort Technique without realizing it or planning it. I told her I agree. That was a year and a half ago. I filed last year. It came up in court again last summer and all she had to do was walk down the hall and file the papers. Then it came up again last month in court as it is what she wants and in that court order we signed that the divorce will be severed on the corollary which means the decree can be done while the outstanding issues of litigation and settlement can drag on. Again, after that was over she was to walk down the hall at the court and fill out the form and sign it. I assumed she did. I found out yesterday she did not. So, in any event, I have given what she wants, done all the dirty work 3x and she has not simply signed a document to make it done. Perhaps to frustrate me, I don't know. Cannot mind read and won't. It hurt to do it, but I did. Ball is in her court ( pun intended lol ) so I am off the hook. Limbo land [censored] but in a funny way I felt liberated and became more brave and became my independent self again and assured that I don't need her. It is a roll of the dice DX and I am not sure of process and financial protection in your jurisdiction as opposed to here in Ontario where it is screwy. Best advice would be from good lawyer on that front.
Keep brave. He has made up his mind but is chicken to do his. He seems to be the needy one that cannot bear it alone, even for a while or the good of his kids. Jerk. You are a star in my mind.