Hi friend. Yes, still here. Hope I am around anytime you need to reach out.

I think it's good that the two of you can find something to share laughter.

I know you feel anxious about her seeing your IC, and then the two of you seeing her together. Even if your XW were to think the IC would share XW's POV over issues with S, and/or that IC will help to change your mind.........it could turn out to help your XW in the end. (I hope that makes sense.). I really hope something will be said by IC that will encourage XW to seek further help for her personal issues (and not neccessarily related to son or you).

We will sure hope for a good outcome. I will be anxiously waiting to hear how things go.

(hugs)

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!