I have no doubt he's still seeing OW.
I told him to get on with the divorce.

From what I can tell he ignored me. I haven't heard from him since. I haven't initiated any contact in 5 days.

I'm done. I do have worth and value and I am not going to sit here on a shelf while he carries out his affair on the off chance that he decides to come back.

I am not his back up plan. I will not stay married to a man I have to share, a man that has forgotten how to tell the truth. I don't believe anything that comes out of his mouth anymore.