Hmmmmm???? I don't know what I sayeth. I thinketh you are saying that because W is wearing a plain old ring on her wedding finger that it's a negative or bad sign? Sorry Ruby... I'm not getting what you are trying to tell me. HELP!
But otherwise... Heeeeeeeeey! I have been gone a week and no one sent a search party. What if I had won the lottery? Seriously though, busy with school and I live in the south... ice-pocolypse, the past few days.
My W was stuck out of town because of the weather so I haven't seen her in what? a week? She comes home tomorrow and I am here for one night then Sat. I am traveling over night without W to go to her BFF's (also my super friend) birthday party. I have reservations... it's just awkward. But I can't make their issues, my issues. So I am off to celebrate my friend. (ringing the GAL bell)
The day I get home W leaves for ANOTHER week. Hopefully this will be the last long trip for a while! Somebody's gotta work on this M sooner or later!
We talk and text everyday she's away. I let her chase me most of the time. (180) But I also like to validate her every couple of days with a random "missing you" or some xoxo's.
I'm ready for her to be at home though. I miss her terribly. BUT... I am ok. It seems I learned to be alone and I'm good at it. It's a different dynamic for both of us this time around. We don't contact because we think we are supposed to, and we don't stay on the phone longer that we want to. I feel a sense that we are "here" for each other, but we are missing that messy little co-dependent factor to our communication when she is away now. It just feels better.
And now... my friend is turning 50. Any ideas on absolute, total, hilarious gifts or pranks for 50????? We are super close so ANYthing goes!
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
It's a different dynamic for both of us this time around. We don't contact because we think we are supposed to, and we don't stay on the phone longer that we want to. I feel a sense that we are "here" for each other, but we are missing that messy little co-dependent factor to our communication when she is away now. It just feels better.
