Yes Laurie, I feel very priviliged to have Wonka and yourself following and helping me. The focus has to be on my boys, that is the important part of my life now.
All I can continue to do with them, is text and let them know I am thinking about them. Offer at times to come and visit, without constantly being on their backs about visiting. Ask questions about their lives, their things they are doing. Help them if and when necessary.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.