Patience Paul Patience!! Did I emphasize patience?
Have you ever heard the saying, "Slow is fast and fast is slow."?
When you become impatient and push the process, you will inevitably slow things down. Step back and let things play out. It will be clear when she wants to work things out.
Also, just like she has to see consistent changes in you, you have to see consistent changes in her.....over a period of time. Take that from someone who learned the hard way. I changed significantly, and my STBX did not change much at all when we agreed to reconcile. The result is that the wheels fell off again.
Tattoo "PATIENCE!!" to your forehead.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
