ok... just thought maybe a general statement would be like throwing him a bone for good behaviour..... (as in Sandi's 37 rules)
My friend suggested a general statement: "things seem a bit less stressful, its nice"
BUT... if you guys say STFU, then STFU I will do!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)