The statements you just said are true, that is what I want...what does she want. As of right now not me because she is content with OM. As mentioned before W is testing me, complimenting me on my appearance, how she notices the changes & strides I've made. W has also mentioned that if I moved back right now I'd be good for a few months then go right back to my old self; saying that 2 1/2 months isn't long enough to have the changes stick. I agreed.

As you can see W & her thoughts are all over the place. As for her strides/changes she feels that the mistakes in the marriage were my fault...so she has made no changes to her life. I know it takes 2 to tango but I have to admit I took the lead. This is why me moving out was the best thing that could of happened to me, it opened up my eyes & made me realize how important my family is to me.