She doesn't want to tell you she wants a divorce. She wants to keep you close believe it or not. Plus, I don't think this stuff is easy for the WAS either, and that's not an excuse just what I believe. Try not to read to much into it. You're on the right path. As someone who got pulled in wayyyyyyy too many times by 'positive' reactions/behaviors, take it easy no sudden movements NO questions. My W told me once after a week or two of not talking, one night after we went to dinner it was suggested I spend the night atleast one night a week I was so happy... Guess how many times we did that? 0!! Lol, she told me the day I was coming to stay the night that I was pressuring her when she in fact was the one who suggested lol! So one step at a time. You are 'JOE COOL' nothing, and I mean NOTHING can sway you... ;-)