thanks all. I have a lot to go over with Coach tonight and will Journal later. I just feel that we are moving somewhere off the middle...I know I am and I want to see what's next. I'm not really interested in the "separated for years..." thing the W mentioned weeks ago.

I will share that my D16 was concerned that if W and I got back together, the 'poison' would come along and we'd all be miserable again. She expressed that none of the kids want that. I told her I won't allow that either.

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14