This is why I wanted to ask her the question that has been bring discussed, I don't like not being in control of the situation. I'm in control of my life & how I chose to live it but right now not in charge of how my M will turn out.
I get that, oh man, I get that (recovering controller here).
That is what you "need", those are your wants, right?
Getting that would make you feel better, in control of your whole life, right?
What about your W's wants, right now?
What about your W's needs, right now?
What can you tell me about her wants and needs at the moment?
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
