PortiaM - looks like you and I are in the same boat. I basically gave my H permission to have an affair because I felt guilty that I was not able to gratify him sexually (once every three weeks or so on my part). Well, H had an EA in Sept 2013 and it still continues. He insists OW is just a friend now, but they are still in touch via txt/phone. I'm devastated; he says I gave him permission so he shouldn't have to give her up. I'm lost as to what to do. Sigh.
Best wishes to you. I will keep an eye on this thread, as it will undoubtedly help me out.
And thanks to HopefulStill for such a wonderful response earlier!
----------------- Me-50 Married 25 yrs D15, D18 Husband is “friends” with OW
