Yes.

Your daughter is astute in that she recognizes you and W are both happier.

It's your R, you get to decide how long you "stand" but you can have boundaries that protect you while standing.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss