The plan I've been working on is give W space, focus on my stuff & my self, & keep in contact either by texting, calling, or seeing them as much as I can.

This seems to be working, better 3 weeks ago than now, W called 4 times in 5 days. I think what's happening in both of our everyday life's has made things change. This is why I wanted to ask her the question that has been bring discussed, I don't like not being in control of the situation. I'm in control of my life & how I chose to live it but right now not in charge of how my M will turn out. Only W can decide if she wants to be with me or not.