Honestly - I have the patience of a saint. (Seriously.)

That said....I need to lay some ground rules. My thought is that I need to end physical contact with him until I know that he's done with this....And that may mean that he'll get mad and move out or go see her...IDK. But I think I have to do that to protect myself.

I'm so horrified to be in this situation.


Me 43 H 43
Married 18 years
Together 21 years
Two kids, 15 and 13
BD 11/14/13 (but not asking for divorce - just informing me of OW)