Honestly - I have the patience of a saint. (Seriously.)
That said....I need to lay some ground rules. My thought is that I need to end physical contact with him until I know that he's done with this....And that may mean that he'll get mad and move out or go see her...IDK. But I think I have to do that to protect myself.
I'm so horrified to be in this situation.
Me 43 H 43 Married 18 years Together 21 years Two kids, 15 and 13 BD 11/14/13 (but not asking for divorce - just informing me of OW)