separted six weeks still on the journey - II

[paul19510]

Yes, your W is being kind of ridiculous, saying this and that should change, when she's the one who left and has nothing to do with any of it.

But . . . I would take this as a good sign. She is showing interest in your kids and what is happening at home.

Perhaps she is just not very good at communicating that in a more direct way. Imagine how hard it would be to acknowledge that you've deserted your kids for the past few months.

hi M, She was funny to say we should team up more. She doesn't seem to want to be around. I was proud D16 told her mom she doesn't want her to come stay here while I am out of town in tow weeks. She wants to do what I told her she could. She felt caught in the middle if W starts snooping around while I'm gone. She asked W to stay away and live like she does now unless there's an emergency.

also, D16 told me that W said I KNEW she was staying over the other night. All kids confirmed that I didn't know. I read D16 the text to confirm the arrangement "...I would like a movie night at the house with the kids...." that says nothing about sleeping over. I don't like lies.