Good for you, 3. It sounds like you are becoming confident again and taking charge. Living in fear is awful and I have realized over the last few months how much that mindset has held me back (and made me try to control). An ugly cycle.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
