By no means an I done, I still love my wife. I do feel though as if I am being pushed out by not ever getting the chance to see her & always being placed 2nd. I was thinking that if I asked the question it might give me some clarity on what will happen next. If W says "divorce" then I will feel some type of closure. If W answers "I'm not sure or no" then I would suggest MC to have an outside member help guide us in the right direction. I'm not grasping at strings & this is the most patience I've ever showed. I still think W is MLCing & this OM is a rebound, though I'm not 100% sure because they are moving pretty fast.