Yes, your W is being kind of ridiculous, saying this and that should change, when she's the one who left and has nothing to do with any of it.

But . . . I would take this as a good sign. She is showing interest in your kids and what is happening at home.

Perhaps she is just not very good at communicating that in a more direct way. Imagine how hard it would be to acknowledge that you've deserted your kids for the past few months.


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14