I've been reading this board for a long time, almost daily and your H takes the cake! (along with cake-eating)

Have you read the DB/DR books? or This Is Not the Story You Think it Is?

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while he brings this relationship to a place that I can be comfortable with.
WTH does that mean?

Is he wanting and open marriage?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss