Hi 3 Thanks for checking in. I just had a convo with W, she called me today to say, ..."kids are not ready on time and make me late for work... we have to team up better to get them going...." funny its just ME. SHE LEFT! I wonder who the comment was directed to.
W pointed out that S 12 was not done his Homework again this morning and that she feels he should be working on I more diligent in the evenings. Again, SHE'S NOT HERE EVER!
I told W that I was taking her out of the loop and sending kids to school on the bus if she was not able to get to work on time. this will force kids to have a choice, get ready on time and go with mom or Take the bus if you can't be ready when mom is.
I did mention to W that we've all have ALOT on our emotional plates in the past 7 weeks. I wonder why and that the kids are fairing well despite the issue(s).
She and I have to sit down and talk. I think Saturday morning is going to have to be a little heart to heart. Getting really tired of this ride.....I will speak with my Coach tonight about my idea and how to phrase it.
I don't need W, I wanted W in my life. She doesn't want me, but she Needs me to do the equestrian things. that's not a marriage its a business deal. Only problem with it is, there's absolutely no advantage from my perspective.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14